Интересно с Elizest : What is red string ?

“A human being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feeling as something separated from the rest, a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.” ~ Albert Einstein

Your calling should affect the lives of others for good. WIN-WIN is only one right life principle. Never to cross red line - Never to lose your Soul. Red string is life principle, Soul software... The red string is in front of the RED LINE.

Sometime events occur in your life that cause you to close. You assume every situation is going to occur the same way: if you were hurt once, you will be hurt again. This is not true. It’s better to forgive than to hold a grudge. Don't waste your strength and time on revenge. I realize, that nobody wins. Something is ending and something begins. Just have a smile and spend your time with benefits.

Don't be afraid to start living otherwise. Fail, fail and fail some more. Find inspiration in children, how many times does a child fail before they get something right, children are constantly trying new things and failing. Learn from them! Go out and try new things! No one has ever been good at something without failing. Choose to make yourself better each day, make the world a better place. I think that finding inner peace is key to outer peace.

I think there is no greater mood lifter than to find a way to laugh every day. Find people every day to have a good laugh with. Do good deeds, help others, forgive others but never expect anything from anyone. The happiest people are the ones who make others happy. You will never be happy if you cross red line. Sometimes stems from unexpectedly good things. Can often come from really good interactions with other people. Can come from luck. The most lasting and peaceful form of happiness. I would say it is also a very rational-leaning form of happiness. When everything in the world is as it ought to be, and when everything in the mind is as it ought to be, this is what results.

Principle win-win is a total philosophy of human interaction. In fact, it is one of mind and heart that constantly seeks mutual benefit in all human interactions. With a win-win solution, all parties feel good about the decision and feel committed to the action plan. Win-win sees life as a cooperative, not a competitive arena. И тут мне хочется вставить предложение на русском языке. "Не н...шь, не проживешь", "либо ты, либо тебя" и прочее подобное мировозрение, давно пора оставить в прошлом. Эти правила игры не цивилизованного мира, они ведут только ко всеобщему проигрышу в итоге. Most people tend to think in terms of dichotomies: strong or weak, hardball or softball, win or lose. But that kind of thinking if fundamentally flawed. It's based on power and position rather than on principle. Win-win is based on the paradigm that there is plenty for everybody, that one person's success is not achieved at the expense or exclusion of the success of others. Win-win is a belief in the Third Alternative. It's not your way or my way; it's a better way, a higher way. I only want to go for Win-Win. I want to win, and I want you to win.

When you have no cheat as an option in your mind, you feel liberated because you have no need to manipulate people, to push your own agenda, to drive for what you want. You can be open. You can really try to understand the deeper issues underlying the positions. It would be better not to deal than to live with a decision that wasn't right for us both. Win-Win or No Deal. Then maybe another time we might be able to get together. The Win-Win or No Deal approach is most realistic at the beginning of a business relationship or enterprise and all relations in general. Win-win is not a personality technique. It's a total paradigm of human interaction. It comes from a character of integrity, maturity, and the Abundance Mentality. It grows out of high-trust relationships.

Inner peace begins the moment you choose to control your emotions. Respecting yourself means giving and defining your own worth and value as a human being. Think about this: if you do not respect yourself, it will be more difficult for you to respect anyone else. So it all begins with self-respect. Just like with yourself, when you demonstrate respect for others. Respect is one of mankind’s most noble sentiments. The highest levels of respect are always earned – never given. This is true of self-respect as well as respect for others. If you can, help others; if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them – Win-Win or No Deal.